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Larry, age 77, a husband, father, grandfather, brother, cousin, and friend to many, passed away Wednesday, February 28, 2024, in Kalispell Montana, with family by his side. He follows his grandparents, parents, siblings, and his grandson Thorin Besaw, as well as some extended family members, to the Beyond.
Larry was born September 14, 1946, to Roy and Opal (Benbow) Ward, at home in Garfield, Arkansas. He joined three older siblings, Ray, Shirley (Cane) and Glenn. Later, Larry became an older brother to Nancy (Lange) and John.
When Larry was five years old, the family moved to Conway Springs, Kansas. He grew up there, walking home for lunch everyday, and enjoying time with his large extended family. In his youth, he played and coached baseball, and enjoyed acting in class plays. He was a hard worker, mowing lawns, and serving as a lifeguard. He loved to tell the story of how he and his brother, Glenn, saved up enough money from their paper route and bought a car. Every summer he looked forward to working on DeWayne Gerlach's farm.He graduated from Conway Springs High School in 1964.
In 1966, Larry joined the Kansas National Guard. He took a bus and then a train to Fort Benning, Georgia for basic training. His unit was activated for riot control in 1968, and he was stationed at Fort Carson Colorado.
He went back to Wichita, Kansas, on a weekend pass, and it was there that he and Janie Jensen picked each other up in a beer joint. Janie was from California, and was traveling across the country with her friend Bev in a lavender pickup truck. The night they met, Larry famously said to his friend Ed, "I'll take the short one." Larry asked Janie to marry him that very same night. They were married four months later, on December 3, 1968, in Colorado Springs, Colorado. A month before their wedding, Larry received his orders to go to Vietnam.
He arrived in Vietnam as a Sergeant E5, and was a squad leader, doing his best to keep his guys safe. In mid June of 1969, he stepped on a landmine, and was taken to Letterman Hospital in San Francisco, California, with two broken legs and shrapnel wounds to his hip, arm and stomach. Janie was able to visit him daily as he recovered from his injuries. He received a Purple Heart and a Bronze Star for his service.
Larry and Janie settled in the San Francisco Bay Area. While working, he attended Alameda Jr. College, then Cal State Hayward, graduating in 1974 with a major in history and a minor in math. While he was in college they welcomed their first son, Andrew John, who was born in February of 1972.
Larry enrolled at the University of Montana, Missoula to complete his education degree. This brought him to Montana, a place he called home for the rest of his life. He got a teaching job in Thompson Falls, and their little family moved there in the summer of 1976, embracing a daughter, Amy Elizabeth, shortly after. Their second son, Matthew Jensen, was welcomed in January of 1979.
Larry taught 2nd grade and 6th grade, and enjoyed it thoroughly. However, due to poor teacher wages, he embarked on a long bookkeeping career, working at various places in Thompson Falls. He returned to teaching at Spring Creek Lodge Academy, where he later became the academic coordinator.
Larry was very active in the community of Thompson Falls. He was an EMT. He coached little guy wrestling, baseball and softball. He was also an active member of Lions Club and Odd Fellows. He was on the city council and served as mayor for 6 years. He enjoyed several years with kids and grandkids, making memories, especially in the form of chocolate peanut butter pie.
After 38 years in Thompson Falls, Larry and Janie moved to Columbia Falls to be closer to family. He was able to enjoy retirement; spending time with family, traveling with Janie, attending his granddaughter Opal's events, or just taking drives and listening to music.
He is survived by his wife of 55 years, Janie, sons Andrew and Matthew, daughter Amy (Besaw) and son-in-law Kenn Besaw, as well as some extended family members. He leaves behind grandchildren Rachel, Jordan, Dillin, Ameerah, Tesla, Brighton, Opal, Michael, Jonathan, Sabrina, Raeleigh, and Braxton, as well as great-grandchildren Tucker and Quinn. He was so loved.
A service will be held in Thompson Falls later this spring. The family wishes to thank the staff at Immanuel Living, the staff of Logan Health Medical Center, and family friend Lauren Dillard. Buffalo Hill Funeral Home and Crematory is assisting the family. If you wish to make a donation in Larry's memory, please send it to the Montana Hope Project.
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